Don’t Look Now, But You’ve Lost Interest In Your Partner
Whether you've had a relationship with someone for a year or for longer, losing interest happens to many people.
In most cases, you didn't even plan on it happening, but who does? Luckily, there are signs that you may not have noticed that you can use to your advantage. If any of these things sound like you, then you can attack the issue early with hopes of fixing it or get things over with quick.
Too Busy To See Our Partner
Before, you would change your schedule just to squeeze in time to see your love. Now, your girlfriend or boyfriend thanks you when you make time. If you can't make the same changes now, you might have some lost feelings.
Creating New Hobbies And Making New Friends
Bringing new people and activities into your life is another huge sign. It's subtle to you, but massive in the overall picture. You’re essentially preparing for life without your partner.
Losing The Fun
Things aren't as fun as they once were with your significant other. The laughs aren't there anymore, and the joking dwindled. Perhaps this is a sign of growing apart that you two need to figure out before it’s too late.
Can't Remember The Last Time You Felt Butterflies Around This Person
Did he or she always seem to create butterflies in your stomach, but not anymore? Surely, that feeling doesn't last forever, but not having them at all anymore is a sign. What happened to all the magic?
No More Compliments
If you used to compliment your girlfriend on her makeup or outfits all the time, but haven't done that in months, it doesn’t mean she stopped looking as good to you. It doesn’t sound like a big deal, but this is a sign that you might not value the person anymore.
Their Company Doesn't Make You Feel Good
This person was someone who always made you feel good, no matter what. Those days are no longer here and you feel more pressured than relaxed now. If you aren't comfortable around them anymore, the good days might come to an end soon.
Staying Out Late On Your Own
Maybe you need a little extra peace away from your partner. That's fine, but if it becomes a routine and you start staying out later than usual, you probably aren’t feeling the vibes anymore. Figure out why you started doing this to find the problem.
The Laughing Faded Away
You once laughed with this person until your ribs were sore. You've never experienced that much laughter in your life, but now you don’t even chuckle at their jokes. Did he magically become not so funny overnight, or did you lose feelings?
The Cuteness Becomes Annoying
Before, you'd love the cute antics. The tickling you, the sweet text messages, and buying you candy on the way home were all things you appreciated. Now, it’s nothing more than a nuisance. Don’t blame yourself over this, just figure out why.
Never Wanting To Go Out With Them Anymore
There was a time when you would become angry if the two of you didn't have plans for Saturday. You could at least go to the movies! Preferring to stay in isn’t a warning sign, but if it becomes a habit, you might not want to put in the effort anymore to keep things romantic.
Your Partner Bores You
Feeling bored isn't anything new, and you shouldn’t worry right away. When this feeling becomes a recurring theme in the relationship is when you should start to worry about feelings or starting a Tinder.
Anxiety Brews On Dates
Date night with your person is one of the best times of the week. That is, until you start to become anxious while cutting into your steak and sitting across from your mate. You should not feel anxious on a recurring basis in a happy relationship.
No More Excitement In Seeing Your Partner
Say you two can only see each other four times a week due to distance or work schedules. Those four days always made you happy no matter what, but now, it isn't the same. Not looking forward to meeting up with someone isn’t the right thing to do and you should figure this out as fast as possible.
Flirting With Others Begins
You would never flirt with other girls, but all of sudden you've caught yourself sending smiley faces to the girl at work. Take a good look in the mirror and ask yourself if you still have the same feelings for your partner.
Daydreaming About The Other Side
Daydreams aren't real, but the vision can turn into reality. If you start to daydream about dumping your current mate, then you’ve got it bad. You have fleeting feelings and it’s best you talk it out with your person.
Jealous Of Your Single Friends?
This is why you should stay off of Instagram and Facebook as much as possible. Seeing all your single friends have fun isn't what you want to look at when you have someone at home, but those posts make you jealous now. Perhaps you want to experience that life again…
No Urgency To Contact
Man, those good morning and good night texts are special when you have the right person. Even when you have that someone, you might start to lose the urgency to contact them first thing in the morning like before. You've either grown close enough or lost some interest.
Spending More Time Alone
You shifted from spending tons of time with your partner to being alone more. You should always keep your sense of independence, but it shouldn't become a thing of intense isolation from your partner.
Picking More Fights
We all know fighting doesn't breed healthy relationships, so you shouldn’t start picking more of them. If that’s starting to become a trait for you, there’s an issue at play that you need to solve before it’s too late.
No More Energy
Before, you would put up an effort in disagreements or things you didn't like. Now, you don’t even bother formulating a proper rebuttal. Signs of the times changing have never been more clear than that.
