Woman Tweets About A First Date Fail And It Sparks A Debate About Dating Etiquette
Most of us have an idea inside our heads of how a first date should go. It's something casual where you can get to know one another. A popular choice for a first date is coffee. It's low-pressure, and there is probably something at a coffee shop that anyone can enjoy.
You would think there is no way that could go wrong, but for one lady it did.
Alisha Rai Told A Story On Twitter About A First Date She Had
On this first date, they went to a coffee shop. It seems as though it started off right with him going up to order for them.
But then he comes back with some dessert that he ended up not sharing—not even asking her if she wanted any.
She Found It Hard To Let Go Of
You know when someone does something and it just kind of gets under your skin? This was that for her.
She just couldn't understand why someone would buy dessert and not even offer or think about getting one for her.
It Was Weighing On Her
To add insult to injury, they were cute little Valentine's Day cake pops. So you would think that you'd especially want to share those with someone.
But no, he was happy to keep his cake pop Valentine's experience solo.
Naturally, Twitter Had Some Opinions
She later tweeted that no one can go viral for anything and not get some crap for it, which is pretty true.
It is kind of shocking that people would have a lot of things to express about eating cake pops, but here we are.
Some People Even Sent Her Emails
There was one guy who sent her a huge email with all capital letters explaining to her that she's everything wrong with women these days.
I'm not really sure that he needed to send her an email about his opinions because frankly, no one asked him for them.
The Story Called Into Question Dating Etiquette
Was it rude of that guy to sit down and eat the cake pops in front of her? Does it mean that he doesn't understand what it means to share?
Or maybe he was just oblivious and thought she would ask if she wanted one?
Some People Had Some Jokes
Someone said that this person was chaotic evil and should be avoided at all costs.
If they thought that this was acceptable, what else are they capable of doing to mildly offend us?
It Might Have Been A Big Red Flag
It's a fair point that some made that this might a big red flag that would only become more apparent as they dated.
Maybe this person is really selfish and cake pops would have been the last thing on her mind.
Others Thought It Was A Bit Much
There were those who thought that she was way overreacting and being silly.
If she wanted her own dessert, she should have said she wanted one. Or she could have gone up to the counter and got one herself.
It's No One's Job To Buy Her Dessert
Maybe it was weird that she thought he was going to buy it for her in the first place.
Next time, she'll know for sure to mention to her date if she wants a cake pop, that's for sure.
