Man’s Message From Date Proves Nice Guys Finish Last

The dating world can be very difficult to navigate in the online world.

A man on TikTok is sharing how being too nice was the reason why a woman didn't want to see him anymore.

This is Gabe

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Gabe Escobar is a man in his early 20s.

He works as an actor and has worked on a number of Broadway plays. He is very active on social media and shares a lot of things about himself.

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He's Single

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He has been very open in sharing that he is currently single.

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He has said that he is single by choice, but that has not always been the case, according to his profile.

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Talks About His Dating Experiences

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While he talks about his dating life on TikTok, he is not too serious about it.

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He made a video poking fun at the fact that he has not had many long-term relationships.

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Looking For A Relationship

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Like many people these days, the first thing that he does when he meets someone new that he thinks he might like is look them up on Instagram.

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He wants to see if they are already in a relationship.

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He's On Hinge

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Gabe, like so many other people looking for a relationship, is on Hinge.

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In his profile, he talks about how he is a big fan of Harry Potter and says that is something he wants his potential match to know about.

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Started Getting Matches

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He shared that he was getting some matches on Hinge.

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This woman named Grace wanted to know if he really had 18 stuffed animals that he had named. It turns out that he might.

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He Asked Her To Get Lunch

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In another recent video, he shared a snap chat message where he asked a woman named Katelyn to grab lunch.

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Her response was very direct, and she told him that she didn't want to hang out with him anymore.

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He's Too Nice

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Her reason for not wanting to hang out with him was that he was too nice.

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She said that he compliments her too much and says that no girl will want to date him if he's that nice.

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Only In It For His Fame

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Katelyn then went on to say that she was only inviting him to things because of his TikTok fame.

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She thought it was cool at first, but now she was just over it and didn't want to talk to him anymore.

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He Was Nice About It

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In what was probably no surprise to Katelyn, he was very nice about the whole thing.

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He just responded with a single line saying he was sorry to bother her. Do nice guys always finish last?